BDSM Consent Form: Contract, Checklist and What to Include

A man signing the BDSM consent form

In March 2021, New South Wales Police Commissioner Mick Fuller floated an app for recording sexual consent. Critics pounced within days, warning that consent can be revoked at any point and a digital signature could easily become a perpetrator’s alibi.

What Is a Dominatrix? Roles, Types and How to Become One

What is a Dominatrix? A true demonstration of a domme

Sociologist Danielle Lindemann interviewed 66 professional dominatrices across New York and San Francisco for her published research. Most described their work as a kind of therapy, helping clients work through shame, atonement, and sometimes old trauma inside carefully staged scenes.

Femdom Orgasm Control: Denial, Edging and Safe Rules

Femdom orgasm control in session

Plenty of people assume that delaying orgasm for days must quietly damage the body somehow. Doctors describe the familiar ache nicknamed blue balls as temporary and largely harmless, so the genuine risks in denial play are usually emotional, not physical.

Femdom Chastity: Keyholding, Rules and Female-Led Control

A lady with a femdom chastity cage of her slave

For centuries, popular history claimed jealous crusaders locked their wives into iron belts before riding off to war. Historians now firmly call that tale a myth, noting that most surviving belts were made centuries later as curiosities or crude jokes.

Femdom Bondage: Ideas, Ties and Safety Tips

Femdom bondage and how it is applied

In a classic 1993 physiology study, women proved about 52% as strong as men in the upper body. That gap helps explain why restraint matters so much in female-led play, where rope and cuffs let her hold complete, confident control.

What Is Femdom? An Introduction to Female Domination

A femdom woman holding a man by the leash to assert her dominance

In 1870, Austrian writer Leopold von Sacher-Masoch published Venus in Furs, an influential novel about a man who begs a commanding woman to dominate him. Sixteen years later, a German psychiatrist borrowed his surname to coin the clinical word masochism.